Relational Learning, The Key to Good Education
January 22, 2026
By:
Jonathan Parker
In 1974, David Hawkins proposed a three-part model of teaching-learning relationships, which others have since reframed as the “Instructional Triangle” or “Relational Triangle.” He explained that the teacher, student, and text (subject) all exist in a relationship with one another, and that all three elements must remain balanced for sound education to take place. If undue stress is put on the student-teacher relationship, then the class could be exclusively about socialization; too much emphasis on the teacher’s relationship with the text could easily lead to the content being inaccessible to the students; and highlighting the connection of the student and the text will leave the class unmoored from academic standards. Think of it this way – if the focus of a class is on the student-teacher relationship, all they will do is talk and connect, which is wonderful, but does not advance the curriculum. If the focus is on the teacher-text relationship, the class will be extremely high-level, probably out of reach for most students. And if the focus is on the student-text relationship, there will be no analysis or authentic understanding, only personal reflections. All three pieces must be balanced in a thoughtful way to maximize the impact of the class and school. According to this model, the crux of good education is identifying and exploring the relationships between these three elements.
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